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  1. Race can you come talk to my "live in" as I call him. I have never seen someone soo sad over football in my whole life. The rest of his family still lives in PA and they are all wrecked too. I just don't get it. I guess it's becasue I am a girl. I don't know if I just forget what it is like to see my other firned be into a losing team (no shot intended) or if he is just bizzare.....
  2. I don't pin that sign up in my cubicle, I walk around with it on my chest!
  3. I have to say it has been very difficult living with a die hard steelers this week. He walks around in a blindingly bright yellow hat. My livingroom has become black and gold. My daughter yells "touch doen steelers" I truly cannot wait til this game is over!
  4. I loved it, I was a bit upset that Miss Arquette is aging so badly. I spent half the show trying to figure out why her skin looks so bad. I have always been a big fan of hers too.
  5. WOW Have I ever been first before? Wait am I really 2nd or 3rd...Oh well...Happy New Year Guys!
  6. I got the Disney Villians snowglobe I have wanted for like 8 years! A beautiful framed drawing of a fairy. I had fallen in love with it a a Ren Fair over the summer and didn't think he noticed. A fire safe locking box (I have been wanting for like 5 years) My son gave me my fist tounge depressor macaroni frame spray painted gold, with his picture in it! It was a great! He loved everything I got him. The kids loved everything they wanted. We are all healthy. Who could ask for more!
  7. I got this email today it's a daily thing i get from Arca Max publishing for parents. quote: __________________________________________________ By BOB IVRY, STAFF WRITER Source: The Record, Bergen County, NJ The scope of the tsunami disaster defies imagination. How do we count the dead? There are so many. How do we wrap our minds around the tragedy? It's too big. The numbers of the dead keep going up. The latest accounting is somewhere north of 100,000 and it's sure to climb. To make matters more grim, the World Health Organization says deaths from disease and deprivation in the wake of the tsunamis will equal or surpass those from the waves themselves. The number is too big. And that's not counting the millions with no homes. The villages obliterated. The roads gone. The hospitals, schools, shops and businesses that, in less than a minute, were wiped off the face of the Earth. "You know how, when there's a car accident in your town and someone dies, we rally around each other?" asks Bob Greenlaw, Ridgewood's director of emergency management. "What do you do here? Everybody's gone. "We can't imagine it. We have nothing to gauge it against." "One death is a tragedy," Josef Stalin said. "A million deaths is a statistic." How do we keep these people, these fishermen, these tourists, these shopkeepers, these hotel clerks, these train riders, these children holding their fathers' hands as they walked along the beach - how do we keep them from disappearing into mere statistics without drifting into despair? How do we comprehend such enormous loss? "The short answer is we probably don't. We can't," says Rabbi Brad Hirschfield of the National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership. "It's too overwhelming. Instead of trying to confront the enormity of 50,000 deaths, try instead to imagine one person dying 50,000 times." Even that is difficult. Impossible. We have the luxury of being 10,000 miles away. We did not have our children ripped from our arms and carried out to sea. We did not get slammed against a wall, a tree, a beach and in the process lose our grip on the one thing we loved more than anything in the world. We are not burying our dead in long, narrow ditches. We are not hunting for food, a dry place to sleep, water that will not poison us, a missing uncle, a face we recognize on a wall crowded with photos of the unidentified dead. "Turning away from the suffering is a defense mechanism," says the Rev. Raymond Schroth, a Jesuit priest who teaches at St. Peter's College in Jersey City. "It's not what human nature is best capable of. The most fundamental element in human nature is compassion." Allowing ourselves to feel that compassion, how do we then account for the random nature of death? One minute, you're floating on your back, letting the salty sea buoy you. The next minute, everyone you know is gone. "It shows the absolute fragility of survival, that our visas as a living person can expire in a heartbeat," says Russell Friedman of the Grief Recovery Institute. All of us are fragile. All of us exist at the pleasure of mysterious forces. But for fate, a whim of nature, the grace of God, it could have happened to any of us. It's what binds us all, a human family. "This is a prime example of how small the world really is and how none of us is really insulated from anything," said Anju Bhargava of Livingston, whose sister in India narrowly escaped the wave. "Every continent will be represented, so to speak, by the victims. This is the first major global disaster. I hope - this is my hope - that people see that when it comes to these things, everyone is affected." So we are all affected. So we search for explanations. We question our assumptions about our own safety. We think about losses we have suffered, and we try to relate them to the losses suffered by the people in South Asia. We grasp at anything positive to feel a little better. "At least there's no one to blame for this disaster," says Thomas Frantz, a psychology professor at the State University of New York at Buffalo. "It's just nature unfolding. Loss is easier to deal with if you don't have to fight through the anger to get through to the core of the sadness and awe." Would it have been worse if it were terrorism or an act of war? Would that have made it any harder to bear? It's true that nature cannot kill humans with the efficiency that humans can. The panorama of the 20th century is littered with examples: Armenia, the Congo, Auschwitz, Ethiopia, Cambodia, Rwanda, Bangladesh. In that murderous company, famine and plague, hurricanes and earthquakes are safer bets. But this is not history. This is here. This is today, and this is tomorrow. And the children. So many children. How many parents see the photos and watch the videotape and imagine their own little sons and daughters carried out to sea? How many of us see our own young loved ones in the mass graves or in the snapshots of the unclaimed dead? "They didn't have a chance to live a life," says psychologist Thomas Demaria of South Nassau Communities Hospital in Oceanside, N.Y. "We hope that in their little minds they didn't experience any terror or pain before they died." And the kids who survive - what will their lives be like? Who will take care of them? "Their innocence about nature is lost," says trauma psychologist Robert Butterworth. Some of us will inevitably ask: Where is God in all this? How could he let this happen? "God is in us," Schroth says. "God is working in the world for the victims of the tragedy insofar as we respond, insofar as we see God in the victims. The point of Christmas is that we will learn to discover God not looking up at the heavens or at idols, but seeing him in persons." "At the interior spiritual level - where was God? - God was drowning with those 50,000 people," Hirschfield says. "But I also know that God is with every relief worker, with every person who sends an article of clothing or writes a check." This is a horrible thing that happened, more horrible than any one person can imagine. To paraphrase the late author Bernard Malamud, we can never make enough of this tragedy. Somebody has to cry - even if it's us, 10,000 miles away. _________________________________________________
  8. I wish you all a Safe and Happy New Year!
  9. Merry Christmas! Wishing you all health and happiness.....also that no one buys your children a stink blaster...it is truly yucky! Hugs and kisses to all!!
  10. You guys do it to me all the time...I am bawling my eyes out! I also thank you for sharing.
  11. Sing this "You make me feel so young...you make me feel so young" Hahaahaha sorry I couldn;t resist! Happy Birthday Hugs and Kisses!
  12. echo

    LOST

    Am I the only one who didn't know that Ethan Rom was Other man?
  13. Am i supposed to be checking in somewhere I forgot or don't know about?
  14. echo

    LOST

    My big Obnoxious Island?
  15. echo

    LOST

    I started thinking they are on a spaceship or in a bio-dome of some sort at the end of last weeks episode.
  16. echo

    27

    Happy Birthday!!!! Man, I feel old!
  17. echo

    Ghosts

    That is cute.... Cashing in on her kids fear.
  18. HI I am soo happy to hear you and the kids are doing soo well! Jennifer sounds wonderful too! I always envy the people who's ex goes away. i still have to deal with mine twice a week. Blick! Take care!
  19. Not looking at the dates I saw I poseted, but couldn't remember posting. I thought I was losing my mind! Then I saw 2003.... Jag I'll be thinking of you! We only have 6 kids here and it's enough to make me want to run from the house, never mind 40 adults! Have a Great Day everyone!!!
  20. echo

    LOST

    Sayid is Hot!!!
  21. When my friends dad was dying in 1992, we were discussing the afterlife and the abilty to contact people. We asked him if he could to pay us a visit and to prove to us that he was there that we would like to know who killed JFK. He hasn't told us yet....that we know of. My friend and I still laugh about it. I hope before my son totally perfects my sick sense of humour, all the questions of this tragedy are answered and the country is safe again.
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